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      Why Don’t Men Wear Engagement Rings?

      Engagement rings are traditionally worn by women on their left ring finger, but not by men. Why don't men wear engagement rings? Men's engagement rings weren't a widespread thing back in the day. This is because engagement rings are a symbol of a woman's mutual commitment to her fiancé. It's common for men to propose to their partner with their piece of jewelry, but it wasn't common for their partner to give an engagement ring in return. This is out of historical tradition. So can men wear engagement rings? Well, men in modern times actually wear engagement rings often. It is not uncommon for men to wear an engagement ring these days, especially in western cultures where gender roles are not as rigidly defined as they once were. There is no real reason why men don't wear engagement rings. It is simply a matter of tradition and personal preference.

       

      Men's engagement rings are becoming the norm in the United States. Custom engagement rings in particular have become increasingly popular. You can have something that isn't a band of gold for the engagement period. Titanium, tungsten carbide, and even meteorite have all become popular for the average person. Sure, plenty of people stick with cultural traditions, but engagement ring trends are slowly changing. For example, while men typically propose to their partner, it's becoming increasingly common for the woman to propose to their man  on their engagement day. Some people are skipping the wedding band altogether and sticking with their original engagement ring just for ease and to save a bit of money. Several diamond engagement rings are being used for the engagement and wedding day between couples. 

       

      Everything's become more of a personal choice than a traditional choice, and that's perfectly okay. The perfect engagement ring doesn't have strict guidelines to follow. For example, silicone wedding rings aren't a traditional material, yet more and more people are choosing less traditional things. In this article, we'll debunk some of the common questions surrounding men's engagement rings and help you figure out how you'll choose your special piece. You'll gain a deeper understanding of the social norms behind the concept of engagement rings and pick the best choice for you. 

      Can Men Wear Engagement Rings In The 21st Century?

      Why don't men wear engagement rings? It mainly depends on traditional values, but you can wear and engagement ring as a man!

      Of course they can! If a gay couple gets married, do neither of them wear their rings? It's not traditionally considered appropriate for men to wear engagement rings, but there are more reasons to wear them than reasons to not wear them. Even groomsmen are beginning to wear bespoke rings specifically for their pal's wedding. Some men may feel that an engagement ring is too feminine for them, but others may find it to be a nice symbol of their emotional commitment. It's the physical representation of your relationship status with another person. Your engagement ring tells people that you're taken and together with a special person. This type of thing is thankfully starting to become a cultural norm in American culture. In the end, it's up to the individual to decide whether or not he feels comfortable wearing an engagement ring. 

      Why don't men wear engagement rings? It mainly depends on traditional values, but you can wear and engagement ring as a man!

       

       

       

       

       

       

      Of course they can! If a gay couple gets married, do neither of them wear their rings? It's not traditionally considered appropriate for men to wear engagement rings, but there are more reasons to wear them than reasons to not wear them. Some men may feel that an engagement ring is too feminine for them, but others may find it to be a nice symbol of their emotional commitment. It's the physical representation of your relationship status with another person. Your engagement ring tells people that you're taken and together with a special person. This type of thing is thankfully starting to become a cultural norm in American culture. In the end, it's up to the individual to decide whether or not he feels comfortable wearing an engagement ring. 

      Men's Guide To Buying Engagement Rings

      When it comes to buying engagement rings, there are a few things that men should keep in mind in order to make the best purchase.

       

      1. Is the ring strong and durable? Some types of metals can break if you're constantly working with your hands.

       

      2. Is the ring easy to clean and maintain? While plenty of options require some extra care, do you really want to invest the extra time to dedicate to your new ring? Some precious metals can bend out of shape or rust if you're not careful.

       

      3. Is the ring at a weight that you like? If you're getting a betrothal ring, you'll want something that you can wear on a daily basis. Some precious stones and durable metals can feel heavier than other alternatives which can be a pro or con. Some prefer a heavier band while some don't love the feel of jewelry on their finger will prefer a lighter band. In the end, you want a band that'll last as long as your lifelong commitment to your partner.

       

      4. Does the ring's metal fit your budget? Certain engagement and wedding rings are more expensive than others due to the rarity of materials and labor. Some metals or materials are harvested in South Africa, while others are exported from Asian countries or the United States. 

      Picking the Best Metals For Men’s Engagement Rings

      You can begin your search extensively once you figure the above questions out. You'll be able to pick from a wide variety of options based on how you answered our men's guide to buying engagement rings. Some of our most popular metals for rings are tungsten carbide, titanium, ceramic, and meteorite. While none of our bands have a single diamond setting, many of our options have grown in popularity as more and more people ask for nontraditional bands. Many of the following options are incredibly durable and will last a lifetime.

      Tungsten glow in the dark men's engagement ring.

      Tungsten Engagement Rings are extremely popular because of their incredibly durable, grey and shiny luster. The majority of these rings come with a customizable inlay that you can fill with a wide range of glow powders and daytime colors. If you want a great engagement ring with plenty of custom options, a popular starter ring is our Tungsten Glowstone Ring. It's a low maintenance choice that's scratch resistant and perfect for every day wear. 

      Tungsten glow in the dark men's engagement ring.

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

      Tungsten Engagement Rings are extremely popular because of their incredibly durable, grey and shiny luster. The majority of these rings come with a customizable inlay that you can fill with a wide range of glow powders and daytime colors. If you want a great engagement ring with plenty of custom options, a popular starter ring is our Tungsten Glowstone Ring. It's a low maintenance choice that's scratch resistant and perfect for every day wear. 

      Authentic Meteorite men's engagement ring.

      Meteorite Men's Engagement Rings are the perfect choice if you'd like to have a durable option if you want something more exotic and rare. A ring forged from meteorite is literally out of this world. Journeying through the depths of space and plummeting through our atmosphere leaves the exterior of a Muonionalusta meteorite ring feeling hard, durable, and unique. Every one of our meteorite rings comes with a pattern that is completely unique and one-of-a-kind. Meteorite rings do require extra care when cleaning and maintaining them, but maintenance is easy if you know what you are doing.

      Meteorite Men's Engagement Rings are the perfect choice if you'd like to have a durable option if you want something more exotic and rare. A ring forged from meteorite is literally out of this world. Journeying through the depths of space and plummeting through our atmosphere leaves the exterior of a Muonionalusta meteorite ring feeling hard, durable, and unique. Every one of our meteorite rings comes with a pattern that is completely unique and one-of-a-kind. Meteorite rings do require extra care when cleaning and maintaining them, but maintenance is easy if you know what you are doing.

      Authentic Meteorite men's engagement ring.

       

       

       

       

       

       

      Meteorite Men's Engagement Rings are the perfect choice if you'd like to have a durable option if you want something more exotic and rare. A ring forged from meteorite is literally out of this world. Journeying through the depths of space and plummeting through our atmosphere leaves the exterior of a Muonionalusta meteorite ring feeling hard, durable, and unique. Every one of our meteorite rings comes with a pattern that is completely unique and one-of-a-kind. Meteorite rings do require extra care when cleaning and maintaining them, but maintenance is easy if you know what you are doing.

      Authentic Meteorite men's engagement ring.
      Solid gold band and meteorite inlay men's engagement ring.

      Our Solid Gold Ring with Meteorite Inlay takes our meteorite rings to the next level. With an inlay of pure meteorite, this meteorite band is  perfect if you want something that's like a traditional ring. It's one of our most popular sellers due to its gold liner looking similar to a traditional gold ring. If you don't like the look of rose gold, we can swap it out for yellow gold or white gold band liner as a custom option. A whiter gold liner can look similar to a platinum band or a sterling silver band, and maybe that's a color scheme you'd really like to have for your engagement band. 

      Solid gold band and meteorite inlay men's engagement ring.

       

       

       

       

       

       

      Our Solid Gold Ring with Meteorite Inlay takes our meteorite rings to the next level. With an inlay of pure meteorite, this meteorite band is  perfect if you want something that's like a traditional ring. It's one of our most popular sellers due to its gold liner looking similar to a traditional gold ring. If you don't like the look of rose gold, we can swap it out for yellow gold or white gold band liner as a custom option. A whiter gold liner can look similar to a platinum band or a sterling silver band, and maybe that's a color scheme you'd really like to have for your engagement band. 

      Titanium glow men's engagement ring.

      Titanium Engagement Rings are another excellent choice if you want a different type of durable and sleek band that's highly scratch resistant. It's not as rare as meteorite, but you can get tons of customization options with our Titanium Glowstone Ring. Each one of these rings can have an exotic inlay of your choice, and you'll find yourself getting lost in the different colors you can add to the band. 

      Titanium Engagement Rings are another excellent choice if you want a different type of durable and sleek band that's highly scratch resistant. It's not as rare as meteorite, but you can get tons of customization options with our Titanium Glowstone Ring. Each one of these rings can have an exotic inlay of your choice, and you'll find yourself getting lost in the different colors you can add to the band. 

      Titanium glow men's engagement ring.

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

      Titanium Engagement Rings are another excellent choice if you want a different type of durable and sleek band that's highly scratch resistant. It's not as rare as meteorite, but you can get tons of customization options with our Titanium Glowstone Ring. Each one of these rings can have an exotic inlay of your choice, and you'll find yourself getting lost in the different colors you can add to the band. 

      Titanium glow men's engagement ring.
      Black ceramic star dust meteorite men's engagement ring.

      If you prefer a darker, sleek band, our black ceramic rings are a wonderful option to choose. Our standard Star Dust™ Ring in Black Ceramic is one of our most popular sellers due to its space-like design. You won't have the exotic inlay options that our titanium rings have, but you'll have an inlay that's almost as unique and rare as our meteorite ring collection. Our Star Dust™ Rings have inlays filled with meteorite shavings, star-like crystals, and an aqua blue glow. It's a gorgeous engagement ring that'll spark conversations wherever you go.

      Black ceramic star dust meteorite men's engagement ring.

       

       

       

       

       

       

      If you prefer a darker, sleek band, our black ceramic rings are a wonderful option to choose. Our standard Star Dust™ Ring in Black Ceramic is one of our most popular sellers due to its space-like design. You won't have the exotic inlay options that our titanium rings have, but you'll have an inlay that's almost as unique and rare as our meteorite ring collection. Our Star Dust™ Rings have inlays filled with meteorite shavings, star-like crystals, and an aqua blue glow. It's a gorgeous engagement ring that'll spark conversations wherever you go.

      Breaking Tradition

      In the end, shopping for a wedding or engagement ring is exactly like figuring out why men in the past chose the "no engagement ring" approach as their natural choice. Why don’t men wear engagement rings? Because it was a common tradition that people followed for conventional engagement norms. Nowadays, it all boils down to the same factors you look at when picking out a ring.

       

      Each couple will always have their own preferences based on the couple's budget, the type of ring they are looking for, their personal preferences. If you're a guy who wants to wear an engagement ring, there's nothing stopping you from doing so! Gone are the days of people strictly following supposedly established norms. Some people prefer tradition, and there's nothing wrong with that!

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